Showing posts with label relationships. Show all posts
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Thursday, 10 May 2018

Absolute truth doesn't exist

There is no absolute truth and that’s the absolute truth. Truth is surprisingly difficult to define. Truth is defined as the body of real things, events, and facts. Truth is most often used to mean being in accord with fact or reality, or fidelity to an original or standard. Truth may also often be used in modern contexts to refer to an idea of "truth to self," or authenticity. The best-known saying about truth is by Aristotle "To say of what is that it is not, or of what is not that it is, is false, while to say of what is that it is, and of what is not that it is not, is true". It is not the only thing Aristotle said about truth.
  • It’s doubtful whether there is any such thing as the truth.
  • It is an absolute truth that absolute truth doesn't exist.
  • Truth is agreement of thought with its object. 
  • Truths are facts. And there are no facts, only interpretations.
  • Everything we hear is an opinion, not a fact. Everything we see is a perspective, not the truth.
  • The opinion which is fated to be ultimately agreed to by all who investigate, is what we mean by the truth, and the object represented in this opinion is the real.
  • Telling what is not true may result in legal and social penalties. 
  • Truths are subjective; absolutism is objective. So, the question is whether something subjective can be objective.
  • Anyone who believes in absolute truth is a fanatic or in imminent danger of becoming a fanatic. Absolute truth is the mother of extremism everywhere.
  • Truth is in the eyes of the beholder. It may not appear as truth to others. 
  • Absolute means completely. Try as you will, there will always be a trace of untruth. Nobody is capable of an absolute truth. Therefore, there is no such thing as absolute truth.
  • People tend to have different opinions, which is natural. Because of these differing opinions some might view a certain topic morally right whereas others might see the same issue as completely immoral. 
  • Deciding that absolute truth doesn’t exist is much more sensible than believing that they absolutely know everything.
  • The idea of something being 100% right can always be challenged.
  • In every statement, there is an ounce of bias, and bias is opinion, and opinion cannot be taken as fact.
  • Truth comes only from the laws of nature. Nature always demonstrates its laws. Therefore truth is unique and universal.
  • Let’s not ask what truth is. Let us ask instead how we can recognize it reliably when it appears. Four factors determine the truthfulness of the explanation: congruence, consistency, coherence, and usefulness.
  • Truth is a complex, contradictory process in which error is constantly overcome through the development of knowledge, while truth itself becomes increasingly complete and profound.
  • Any truth is objective. Subjective truth is merely an individual's opinion. Its content does not depend on the will, desire, passion or imagination of human beings. 
  • We are humans who depend on relationships to survive. When it comes to stating your opinions without being asked, it is likely you shy away from telling a friend, colleague or family member something that you fear could hurt. As adults, we rarely choose to deliberately do something that will hurt people we know. We especially avoid sharing a truth face-to-face that could embarrass, offend or wound someone we like. 
  • It’s been said that everybody lies, but the question is when, to whom, and why? And if someone is lying, how can you tell? The detection of deception is big business with big stakes. Children’s lies are ridiculously easy to spot, but as we get older, we get better at disguising the truth. We don’t necessarily get better at spotting it. 
Mahatma Gandhi said truth is what the voice within tells you. What may be truth for one may be untruth for another. It is not given to man to know the whole Truth. His duty lies in living up to the truth as he sees it, and in doing so, to resort to the purest means, i.e., to non-violence. God alone knows absolute truth. It follows that man, a finite being, cannot know absolute truth. Relative truth is all we know. Therefore, we can only follow the truth as we see it. Such pursuit of truth cannot lead anyone astray.

If you tell the truth, you don't have to remember anything ... Mark Twain
The truth is rarely pure and never simple ... Oscar Wilde 
Half a truth is often a great lie ... Benjamin Franklin
Truth can be stated in many different ways, 
yet each one can be true ... Swami Vivekananda


Thursday, 18 January 2018

Personal luxury

Luxury is not about money. It is about living a truly authentic life. Luxury products were created to help people live a more comfortable life. Comfort is readily available to anyone not through buying more, but by just slowing down and enjoying the beauty that exists in a life simply lived.
  • Luxury is not the opposite of poverty. It is the opposite of vulgarity.
  • True luxury is about authenticity, and cannot be created by buying more. 
  • Luxury is not a matter of having more or less. 
  • Luxury is about creating an environment that liberates your aspirations.
  • Luxury is about removing the distractions and living life the way you want to live.
  • It is not living a spartan life or the life of an ascetic. It is not about reducing for the sake of reducing. 
  • It is not about an idea of giving away everything you own in order to be happy.
  • The journey of life is about discovering the right balance between work and play, people and things to help you create a life that is authentically yours.
  • True luxury is not about being the first to have whatever the latest marketing campaign is pitching. True luxury is a very personal idea. 
  • True luxury is about being able to liberate your aspirations in your own personal way. 
  • True luxury is about creating the right balance in your life so that you have time for the things that matter most.
  • Those watches, cars, jets and McMansions all cost time to amass them, but also the time it takes to maintain them and to dote over them. They demand your time as you cherish them and adore them.
  • There is only so much time in the world. More cannot be created. It cannot be sold or traded. It can only be drawn upon, and the less you waste on the distractions of life, the more you have to spend creating a life that is truly yours and that is a true luxury.
  • Regardless of how much money you have or how many baubles you might cherish, learn to simplify your life and you will learn the value of a minute.
  • Invest your time not just in managing money and things but in relationships that supports, nurtures and helps you grow.
  • In the end, success and affluence and luxury is not about showing off the latest gadget. It is not about having a bigger car or larger house. It is about being able to manage your time and your life, your way.
Take the time to evaluate what is important in your life and let that be the guideline, not just for happiness, but for living a rewarding, successful, and luxurious life.





Don't handicap your children by making their lives easy ... Robert A. Heinlein

Luxury is the enemy of growth. Abundance is neither good nor healthy 
for the growth of a child’s mind ...  Abhijit Naskar



Tuesday, 21 November 2017

Pros and Cons of Being Super Rich

  • Riches improves quality of life. Most rich people are unhappy. Happiness can't be bought.
  • It’s better to be rich than poor. And it’s nice to be super rich. 
  • Affluent – Still have to work. If you are comfortable but still must work to support your lifestyle then consider yourself affluent. 
    Rich – Don’t have to work. Rich people means they do not have to work on stuff they don’t enjoy. They have time and they can do whatever they want with it. In America, net worth of  $10mn or higher are Rich.
    Super rich – Have to work to give their money away. Super rich are with net worth in the tens and hundreds of millions of dollars and up. They have more money than they could ever need for their personal lifestyle. The question of not just what to do with their time but what to do with their excess money.
  • It’s nice to be super rich. You’ll fly private jets. You’ll eat nice food all the time, you’ll have aides and servants who will save you time. Problem is as a person makes more money, expectations and desires rise in tandem, which results in no permanent gain in happiness. 
  • The private jet doesn’t feel so special the 20th time you’re on it. Rather than marveling at the fact you’re on your own plane, you’re more likely to just compare it to other private planes you’ve been on.
  • Happiness is the day to day bounce of emotions while happiness meaning is what you feel when you step back, take a minute, and reflect on what will go in your obituary. 
  • A billionaire has said, “Nothing is going to make you feel better. Philanthropy is absolutely the best drug I’ve ever taken.”
  • You can meet anyone in the world. The best part about being famous is the chance to meet other famous people.
  • Unlike in the past, today there’s a tiny difference between the rich and the American middle class in terms of quality of life.
  • Bill Gates has a bigger house than you or me, but for what really matters, we’re the same.
  • Your quality of life is determined by the quality of your relationships.
  • Any person you befriend while you are atop a perch of power is just trying to get something from you or so you suspect, and suspicion alone is enough to careen a relationship.
  • Many presidents declared “no new friends” upon entering the White House.
  • Being super rich can be lonely. If you try to talk about the perils of being rich and famous, someone will accuse you of self-pity.
  • If you are a good person, the weight and duty of being responsible with the billions you have becomes a burden. And then it almost becomes criminal to pass that burden onto your kids. It is very hard not to have it run your life.
  • Being super rich disconnects you from your fellow humans.  If you can’t remember the last time you waited in line at the airport, or if it’s been years since you drove your own car to a supermarket, you’re living in a different world. 
  • Money changes your sense of morality, and usually not for the better. As you move up the class ladder, you are more likely to violate the rules of the road, to lie, to cheat, to shoplift, and to be tightfisted in giving to others. 
  • Empathy goes down. It’s harder for the super rich to remain compassionate towards ordinary people.
  • Perhaps wealth needs its own goldilocks story - not too much, not too little. Money is like gasoline while driving. You never want to run out, but the point of life is not to go on a tour of gas stations.
  • Ideally you want to have a sum of money that is large enough to get most of the advantages of wealth but not its side effects. With enough money, you live entirely on your own terms.
  • People are very critical of the wealthy in the UK. In the US entrepreneurs are celebrated.

That man is rich, whose pleasures are the cheapest ... Henry David Thoreau
Honesty is incompatible with amassing a large fortune ... Mahatma Gandhi 
In a country well governed, poverty is to be ashamed of. 
In a country badly governed, wealth is something to be ashamed of ... Confucius


Living life of importance is egoistic, where as leading simple & frugal life has more fun and fulfillment. VIP life in total disconnect in a different world is just miserable. It is better to have sufficient money which gives security, freedom from compulsion to work and to pursue one's own interests & choices. Anything more is burdensome and less is fatigue. We should never lose things that money can't buy. Finally we should never consume more than what we produce. Wastage and  excess emissions are nothing but abusing nature.

Wednesday, 24 May 2017

Superb Speech by Mr. Ratan Tata given at Symbiosis, Pune

Don’t just have career or academic goals.

Set goals to give you a balanced, successful life. Balanced means ensuring your health, relationships, mental peace are all in good order.

There is no point of getting a promotion on the day of your breakup.

There is no fun in driving a car if your back hurts.

Shopping is not enjoyable if your mind is full of tensions.

Don't take life seriously. Life is not meant to be taken seriously, as we are really temporary here.

We are like a prepaid card with limited validity. If we are lucky, we may last another 50 years. And 50 years is just 2,500 weekends.

Do we really need to get so worked up?

It's OK, bunk few classes, score low in couple of papers, take leave from work, fall in love, fight a little with your spouse... It's OK... We are people, not programmed devices..!

"Don't be serious, enjoy life as it comes"

Do share it with all the good people in your life....